Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Choosing the right service/provider

Although participation in the sex industry is called punting, if a client does his homework and gives it some thought, it is my opinion that the percentage of successful punts (vs. disappointing ones) would be quite high.

Of course no one can guarantee that a client and provider will “click” (as this has to do with chemistry between two people ) and the experience will be mind-blowing. But getting one’s money’s worth could be a given with the right approach.

Punting is not a cheap hobby, so why not invest some time into a research to ensure that you’ll get the best bang for your buck.

Firstly, one has to accept that not any one provider is a perfect combination of ALL the aspects of one’s wildest fantasies.Often times the ones that fit physical requirements to a T do not offer some services desired or work in the environment that is acceptable to a client (parlour, for example) and the ones that tick all the boxes service-wise could be just outside your personal “sex appeal” zone.

Good starting point would be to figure out what is it exactly you are seeking (as desires may vary greatly day by day and week by week).Is it a quick relief of the tension that’s been building up? Or is it a slow unrushed experience you are craving? Or maybe some kinky fantasy has been floating through your mind for days?

Figuring out how much time and money you can realistically set aside for any given punt is the next (and very important) step.

Putting together a mental list of elements of the booking in the order of most important (absolutely must have-deal breaker if not offered) to the least important (can take it or leave it-no big deal) is a very good idea.

Then look through the ads and see what catches your eye.

Usually guys look at the photos first, and then pricing (based on many comments from clients). That’s great!

But reading the ad itself is no less important. It can save lots of disappointment, time and money.

It is a good idea to choose several providers that fit your criteria, as some may not be available at the time you plan your punt for.

I am a big advocate of advance bookings-not only this will most likely result in you getting the provider you want at the day and time that suits you the most, it will also give you a chance to ask all the pertinent questions and clearly outline your expectations. It also adds to the experience: email or text exchanges with the provider build anticipation and excitement, hence adding to overall value.

As every provider (and every client) is different, it is very important to clearly state your expectations and ask pertinent questions during the initial inquiry. It is much better to be a little disappointed after discovering the number one provider on your list does not offer a service you desire during initial phone conversation than having your day turn to crap after wasting time and significant amount of money and not getting what you wanted/expected.
Questions are great-we (providers) love questions! But be mindful to ask specific questions pertinent to your booking-vs. general “So what would you do to me?” as this will flag you as timewaster.
Try to ask all the questions during initial inquiry instead of “dripping” them one by one over several texts/emails/phone calls, as that’s another red flag for timewasters.

We understand that money does not grow on trees and everyone has a budget.

So pick a girl on your budget.

Trying to “low ball” a WG you really want to see but can’t afford into your price range will not yield a desired result. Even if she accepts, she would resent you and/or remove some offerings from her regular service repertoire, leading to disappointment so your bargain will turn out not to be one at all.

Attempting to save money by coaxing a WG in your price range into providing services she does not offer but you really want is not a good idea.
Very popular example of this is guys calling FS providers (hookers) and asking them to perform Pro Domme services.
On many occasions I’ve been asked this and it never ease to amaze me. Do you not care about your well-being?
Once a guy asked me if I had a full-face hood and ball gag for his mouth. I couldn’t believe it.
The hard cold fact is you can suffocate inside 60 seconds. WG who is not a Pro Domme would not know to check your vital signs and without seeing your face/eyes she wouldn’t even know you are dead-not for a while.

Or how would you like serious damage (even internal bleeding) done to your kidneys by someone who does not know proper flogging/caning techniques?

Or *very embarrassing* trip to Emergency room to extract something that is lost in your bowels (because the girl you’ve asked to perform the service had no experience with this type of thing and did not take proper precautions).

If a WG does not offer a particular service, that is generally because she is not comfortable with it. This is a business for her and if she was able/trained/willing to do something, she would most definitely let it be known-to expand her client base and to make more money.
Pushing the boundaries seldom ends well. Even for stuff that you might view as a harmless/easy to perform fetish.

If you really, really crave something, save up for the provider whom advertises the service and has several reviews under her/his belt.

About reviews. They are a great tool, but are never absolutely objective-every person is unique and his/her perceptions are coloured by emotions. Just because someone had ones-in-a-lifetime –out-of-body experience to end all sexual experiences with a particular provider does not mean you should expect exactly the same.

It is always a good idea to be prepared to give something up in order to receive something else.
For example: very young, new to the industry provider will probably not offer all-encompassing service. That’s because her only experience with sex up until then was with boyfriends-meaning she gave a male access to her body for the purpose of having sexual encounter. She is yet to figure out that commercial sex means catering to client’s complex needs and providing a service and atmosphere. But you do get to shag a young fresh chickie, so that’s the upside.

If you have means, it is a good idea to book several different providers in succession (or over several days) for different purposes. For example: one for fast, quick and hard sex to relieve immediate tension, another for a dinner date, yet another for multi-hour unrushed experience. You can throw in a Pro Domme session in the mix if you so desire or a sensual masseuse to relax your tired muscles after all this strenuous activity :)

I know plenty of guys who find it exciting to book an unknown provider from obscure sites-they get their thrill from finding “hidden gems” that way. That’s great, as long as you realise that there is 50/50 chance of you wasting (or in some cases outright losing) your money and you are at peace with that.

At the end of the day, you are the only one who decides how (and with whom) to spend your money. Objective is to get the best value for it. It is up to you to do the research.

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